Thursday, September 2, 2010

MINDSET UPGRADE:THE DIFFERENCE WE SHARE WHEN WE THINK DIFFERENTLY

Dear MH,

There is a difference that we share when we think differently.Yes.You cant think differently and remain the very same person with old fashioned thinking and lifestyle.You cant think differently and live uninformed life,remember any decision based on little information will be a shameful experience to you.What am I saying today? I say,WE ARE DIFFERENT,we think differently,talk differently, different lifestyle, different preferences,different systems of beliefs,different tastes of things,you see eveything is different.

So our difference doesnt mean our separation.Namaanisha kuwa utofauti wetu haimaanishi tutengane bali tuungane kwa ukaribu zaidi.Practically,this is different also.Watu wakitofautiana kitu wanatengana,hiyo iko kila eneo kuanzia kanisani, mtaani,mpaka ikulu.WHY,because of kitu kinaitwa SELFISH ATTITUDE.Ulishawahi kujiuliza kwanini watu wanataka kuoa huku wote wawili wanatofautiana kila kitu?But it seems that its their difference that makes them come together and not separate.

This means,when we share the difference we have,there is a way we are going to think very different and as such our mindset will be impacted to reveal the positivity which is positive for ourselves and the nation.

YOU CANT THINK DIFFERENT AND REMAIN THE VERY SAME PERSON.

10 Points and commandments in Human Relationship that can help you think differently,share your difference and make a great deal of differences in life.

1. Speak to People
There is nothing like a cheerful word of greeting. To really connect, look them in the eye as you speak.

2. Smile at People
It takes 72 muscles to frown, only 14 to smile. They can hear the difference in your voice - even over the phone.

3. Call People by Name
The sweetest music to anyone's ear is the sound of his/her own name. Be sure you say it correctly. Say it often.

4. Be Friendly and Helpful
To have friends and build relationships, be a friend first.

5. Be Cordial
Sincerely speak and act as if everything you do is a genuine pleasure.

6. Be Genuinely Interested In People
You can like almost everybody if you try. They don't care how much you know until they know how much you care. Be sure they know how much you care.

7. Be Generous With Praise
Praise publicly, correct privately. Everyone wins this way.

8. Be Considerate of the feelings of others. There are usually three sides to a controversy: yours, the other person's, and the right side. Keep ego and emotions in check.

9. Be Alert
To give excellent service. What counts most is what we do for others not ourselves.

10. Have a Good Sense of Humor
Don't take yourself too seriously. When you add lots of patience, and humility, you will have a recipe for enduring success.

JESU UP

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